Why it caught my eye?
The chains of love 😅 got a hold on me lately and it didn’t work out and I didn’t like the way I behaved so apparently I have something to learn.
Chapter 1
The video claims that we are all complete and we don’t NEED love to complete us; two broken halves do not make one healthy whole. Two healthy whole people can only make one healthy whole.
Romantic completion
Most people don’t crave connection out of love but they seek connection as a form of a crutch or for validation and comfort; to soothe a need.
Most relationships today are transactional; what can you do for me, how can you heal my wounds without me having to do the work, how can you make me feel good.
Individuality
Being whole means you don’t need the relationship, but you choose it.
If you sit in a room alone and you don’t feel comfortable with yourself, it won’t be love that you are giving, it’ll be a need.